The CHASE

Wax Lyrical by Kev

Chasing a girl you like in hopes she will be your girlfriend.
..as compared to..
Chasing a girl you love in hopes she will be your girlfriend again.

1. When you buy or do for her stuff, you buy or do in hopes of scoring points & impressing
2. When you buy or do for her stuff, you buy or do so because it makes her happy

1. When you send her home, you do it in order to give you more personal time with her
2. When you send her home, you do it so that she goes home in comfort and won't need to rush with the other sweaty millions during rush hr.

1. You buy the girl "something" because she told you she liked it the other day
2. You buy the girl "Something" because you never forget what she likes.

1. You use the same shampoo or bath foam as her in hopes that she notices it one day and says "Hey thats the same shampoo I use too!"
2. You use the same shampo or bath foam as her coz you have come to like what she likes

1. When you sms her if she has eaten her dinner or lunch, you do so to show concern and score points
2. When you sms her if she has eaten her dinner or lunch, you do so because you are concern but feel stupid afterwards (If you don't understand why, then you have never been in scenario 2)

1. You want to get into her pants because she's something new for you
2. You want to get into her pants because the same intimacy you took for granted was also the intimacy you never realised you needed until its gone for good.

1. You listen to her everyday grumbles because you want to show you are her listening ear.
2. You listen to her everyday grumbles because you really want to listen and hanker to know what's going on in her life.

1. You pray to god hoping to make her see and realise you
2. You pray to god hoping she would love you all over again

1. Your concerns for her are dotted with motives
2. Your concerns for her are sincere

1. Everything you do with her is something new
2. Everything you do with her is something old but feels like something new again.

1. You side with her in everything when she grumbles even when she's wrong
2. You point out when she's wrong in her grumbles because you want her to better herself

1. Showing concern for her in front of friends is easy peasy.
2. Showing concern for her in front of friends is awkward.

I think being in scenario 1 or 2 doesn;t make a difference in the attention we seek.
We're just like a puppy looking for attention, and when we get it, it just puts an extra bounce in our step.
I guess nobody wants to be in scenario 2. People may say,
You are chasing a unicorn
You are clinging on to something which is not there
You are going to end up more hurt then ever
At the end of the day, you choose your own path and make your own decisions. You must deem what is worth it and truly believe in what is worth it.
I know that she's worth it...

For She Whom I Love

This kinda things are for memories, but I decided to put up a picture for insight.
Did this for a girl I love and for a girl who is worth doing it for.
I guess somehow although I hoped something for this night, I didn't expect it.
On retrospective, I guess I didn't do it for expectations. It was more of doing something for someone who was well worth it whether the outcome.
I didn't need the pity, I didn't need the awwwws *pat* *pat*, I didn't need the "it was a good try".
All I needed was her to be proud for what I did for her and remember it for what it was worth.

I kinda regretted not getting a picture of us releasing hundreds of balloons into the starry sky but I guess these kinda memories are etched in our hearts that not even a kodak moment could share. When we are in relationships, we may find such stuff lame, but please try it...the feeling of 2 people being happy is something which is well worth the lameness. The simple idea of releasing balloons in the sky, there is a rush of feelings by just one action.

Cost of Balloons - Not worth it

Cost of Small Room - Not worth it

Cost of Flowers - Not worth it


Making that Somebody Special - Priceless